Mar 24, 2013

Learn How To Get A Girlfriend Even If You’re Too Shy To Talk To Them

How to get a girlfriend

Do you need to know how to get a girlfriend?

If you’re not having any luck finding a girlfriend and you’re wondering where all the great girls are hanging out and how to connect with them.  Perhaps you should slow down, step back and reevaluate the whole situation.

If you’re wondering how to find the best girlfriend possible, then you need to make yourself into the best boyfriend material possible.

What does that mean?

That means you have to really assess yourself and you have to see how you measure up to what most girls are really looking for in a boyfriend.  Then you need to improve in those important areas so that you can become the kind of guy that almost any girl would be proud to call her boyfriend.

So what qualities are girls looking for in guys?

Despite all the hype and crazy magazine articles, what a girl really wants in a guy boils down to these 10 basic qualities.


This trait above all others is what will make a girl notice a guy. Women just love a guy with an easy, laid back confident demeanor.  Think George Clooney.  Here’s a guy who’s starting to show his age, yet women of all ages still consider him one of the sexiest men in the world.  He’s never cocky or thumps his own chest.  He just quietly exudes a sense of self-confidence that women consider irresistible.

Sense of Humor:

I read once that if you can make a girl laugh within 15 minutes of meeting her, then you already have one foot in the door. We’re not talking laughing at you here, you don’t have to be some sort of clown, but rather being witty and charming at the same time. Everyone loves being around someone who can make them laugh and keep things light and lively.

Nice But With a Backbone:

No self-respecting girl wants a boyfriend who allows everyone, including her, to walk all over him because he’s just too “nice” to stand up for himself. Being nice and pleasant to be around is an admirable trait to have, but not if you take to the extreme of becoming a total wimp. If you can’t even defend yourself, how will you ever be able to defend your girlfriend, and every girl is secretly longing for her “knight in shining armor”.

Well Dressed:

Girls like a man who knows how to dress well. Someone with their own sense of style who doesn’t dress like a wannabe. Someone who knows how to dress appropriately for any occasion. She wants the other girls to see her with her man and to be envious. This doesn’t mean you have to look like you just stepped out of the pages of GQ, just that you know what looks good and good on you, and that you aren’t afraid to go against what others are trying to make trendy.

Well Groomed:

No one, least of all any girl, wants to hang out with someone who smells worse than a pile of dirty socks and looks like a stranger to soap and water. Take care of yourself, man. Shower or bathe daily, brush your teeth, comb your hair and trim your nails. If your work clothes are dirty, then change before picking up your girl to take her out. Enough said.


Girls want a man who has enough respect for himself to take care of himself and to maintain a certain set of standards for himself. She also wants him to respect her, as a woman, a person and a partner. You also need to be respectful of others around you and in both of your lives. No girl is comfortable around a man who is constantly putting down her friends, his friends and both his and her families.


A girl wants a guy who has a dream, who has goals and who wants to make a better life for both of them. Someone who aspires to make great things happen in his life and in the lives of everyone who is important to him.


Be kind and caring towards your girl. Remember important dates. Show concern about her. Surprise her with flowers or a small gift for no reason at all. Just show her that you really do care.

Hold Yourself To A Higher Standard:

Show your girlfriend that you’re trustworthy. Let her know that you won’t lie to her or cheat on her. Be honest and truthful in your dealings with others no matter the cost. Let her know that you expect the same kind of standards from her.


Be passionate! Be passionate about your life, about your goals and desires and most importantly about your girlfriend. Don’t be afraid to show that passion in the bedroom either. Be the kind of guy who can make the lights in any room shine even brighter with your passion alone and girls will breaking down doors to be seen by your side.

That’s it.  Work on mastering these traits and you won’t have to wonder where all the great girls are hanging out.  They’ll be hanging out where ever you are.

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